The Graceful Warrior

The Graceful Warrior Podcast hosted by Monica Hansen and Pastor David Chotka deliver biblical truth and spiritual warfare insights in this Christian podcast. With Grace and Grit, we equip faith-driven warriors for daily life battles, offering prophetic wisdom and family oriented inspiration through guests from around the world. Join our #17 Goodpods-ranked community to stand firm in God’s truth! ” Its a Battlefield out there--- Grab Your Sword, Your gonna’ need it!!”
Episodes
Episodes



7 days ago
7 days ago
Discover the shocking truth about resilience that no one wants to talk about. In this video, we'll explore the often-overlooked aspects of personal development that can help you build a stronger faith journey, even in the face of adversity. By adopting a growth mindset and focusing on spiritual healing, you can cultivate unity in your family and find the strength to cope with challenges like COVID. Learn how to empower your faith and develop a more resilient you, and uncover the surprising truth that will change your perspective on personal growth forever.
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#personal development #Family unity, #faith journey, #faith in adversity, #growth mindset, #spiritual healing, #covid coping, #unity in family, #Faith empowerment
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Monday Jun 30, 2025
When Suffering & Glory Intertwine Preview
Monday Jun 30, 2025
Monday Jun 30, 2025
Have you ever pleaded with God-- WHY am I going through this? Suffering is a hard path but its not always about you and me. .Its about God getting the Glory through your Victory in the suffering. Tomorrow on the Graceful warrior Podcast, Listen to this incredible story of Resilience when Hope seemed to fade..
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Thursday Jun 26, 2025
Thursday Jun 26, 2025
Join The Graceful Warrior Podcast as host Monica and guest Dr. David Chotka dive into a powerful exploration of spiritual warfare, team ministry, and deliverance in this captivating episode, "Unveiling Spiritual Warfare: Dr. David Chotka on Team Ministry, Prayer, and Deliverance in Mexico City." Dr. Chotka shares riveting stories from his mission trips, including a transformative evangelistic outreach in Mexico City where prayer and fasting led to a dramatic deliverance from demonic authority. He also recounts his work at a Christian rehab in Vietnam and teaching thousands in the Philippines, highlighting the Holy Spirit anointing that fueled these efforts. Emphasizing the importance of church fellowship and spiritual disciplines, Dr. Chotka unpacks how team ministry and the Lord’s Prayer empower believers to overcome the enemy’s schemes and advance gospel proclamation.
Whether you’re seeking to grow as a disciple or feel called to ministry, this episode offers inspiring insights and practical guidance to equip you for the spiritual battlefield. Don’t miss this anointed conversation that underscores the urgency of collective prayer and standing firm in faith!
If your feeling led to go into the Ministry- email David at Hello@spiritequip.com and write in the subject line: I feel led to go into Ministry
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Wednesday Jun 25, 2025
An Exorcism: But the demon spoke in English!
Wednesday Jun 25, 2025
Wednesday Jun 25, 2025
Dont miss Thursday's episode-- On powerful spiritual warfare and David reveals a true exorcism!
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Breaking Free from Pornography: A Son’s Journey to Healing and Redemption
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Join The Graceful Warrior Podcast as host Monica Hansen and her son Matthew Edwards courageously discuss his struggle with pornography addiction, starting in middle school. Explore how faith, prayer, and God’s guidance helped Matthew overcome temptation, heal from a broken father-son relationship, and find true fulfillment.
This episode is perfect for those who want to tackle sensitive topics like lust, shame, and the power of redemption, offering hope and practical advice for parents and young adults.
00:00 Introduction to Sensitive Topics03:58 Matthew's Struggles with Pornography09:12 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships15:33 Finding Redemption and Healing19:14 Confronting the Past and Moving Forward24:22 The Role of Faith in Overcoming Struggles29:39 Encouragement for Others Facing Similar Issues33:03 Outro with david.mp4
Connection Corner- Matthew Edwards- Instagram @matthew_.e1
Here are practical parental involvement strategies to help protect children from harmful influences like pornography and support their emotional and spiritual growth:
1. Active Engagement in Your Child’s Life
Monitor Media and Device Use: Regularly check what your child is accessing on phones, gaming devices, or computers. As Monica emphasized, “The eyes are the window to the soul.” Set clear boundaries and use parental control tools to filter content.
Know Their Friends: Understand who your child is spending time with, as peer influence can introduce harmful content (e.g., Matthew was exposed to pornography via a friend’s PSP at school). Attend school events or meet their friends’ parents to stay informed.
Be Present at School: Get involved in school activities or parent-teacher organizations to stay aware of the environment and potential risks, like the incident Matthew described on school grounds.
2. Open Communication and Trust-Building
Create a Safe Space for Dialogue: Encourage honest conversations without judgment. Matthew struggled to open up about his addiction due to shame, but his eventual transparency in a youth group setting was pivotal. Ask open-ended questions like, “What’s something new you’ve come across online?”
Discuss Sensitive Topics Early: Address issues like pornography, temptation, and healthy relationships before they encounter them. Monica noted the statistic that 15% of teens see pornography by age 10, highlighting the need for early education.
Model Vulnerability: Share age-appropriate personal stories or struggles to show it’s okay to be open, as Monica did by facilitating Matthew’s story on the podcast.
3. Spiritual Guidance and Reinforcement
Incorporate Faith-Based Values: Use biblical teachings or spiritual principles to guide discussions about temptation and sin. Matthew referenced stories like Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness and Samson’s fall to lust, which helped him stay grounded.
Pray with and for Your Child: Monica emphasized prayer as a “weapon” (referencing Ephesians 6 and the story of Jericho). Pray together to strengthen your child’s faith and resilience against temptation.
Encourage Church Involvement: Support participation in youth groups or faith-based communities where kids can find positive role models and accountability, as Matthew did when he spoke up in his youth group.
4. Address Emotional Voids
Recognize Underlying Issues: Matthew’s struggle with pornography was tied to the absence of his father, highlighting the need to identify and address emotional gaps. Spend quality time with your child to build a strong bond and reduce the need to seek fulfillment elsewhere.
Seek Positive Role Models: If a parent is absent or uninvolved, connect your child with mentors (e.g., coaches, pastors, or family members) who can provide guidance and support.
Validate Their Feelings: Acknowledge your child’s pain or struggles, as Monica did with Matthew’s hurt from his father’s absence, to help them process emotions healthily.
5. Set Boundaries and Teach Accountability
Establish House Rules: Monica noted that her home was “somewhat strict,” but rules like no inappropriate content were crucial. Clearly define what’s acceptable and enforce consequences consistently.
Teach Self-Reflection: Encourage your child to understand their “why,” as Matthew did when identifying his reasons for turning to pornography. Help them reflect on triggers and healthier coping mechanisms.
Promote Accountability: Suggest accountability partners or groups, like Matthew’s youth group, where kids can share struggles and support each other.
6. Stay Proactive and Vigilant
Educate Yourself on Trends: Stay informed about platforms like TikTok or devices like PSPs (as mentioned by Matthew) that kids use to access content. Research apps and games to understand potential risks.
Regular Check-Ins: Routinely ask about their day, online activities, or challenges. Monica was unaware of Matthew’s exposure initially, underscoring the need for consistent check-ins.
Balance Freedom and Oversight: Give age-appropriate independence but maintain oversight. Monica’s advice to not just hand over a phone or game without monitoring resonates here.
Implementation Tips:
Start Early: Begin conversations about media, temptation, and faith as young as 8–10, given early exposure stats (15% of teens see pornography by age 10).
Use Resources: Leverage Christian or parenting resources (e.g., books, podcasts like The Graceful Warrior, or apps) to guide discussions on sensitive topics.
Stay Consistent: Make involvement a daily habit, not a one-time effort. Matthew’s journey shows that ongoing support and prayer were key to his healing.
#pornography addiction, #overcoming temptation, #Christian parenting, #healing from addiction, #faith-based recovery, #fatherless struggles, #spiritual growth, #Forgiveness.
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Thursday Jun 19, 2025
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
We are Diving into the Supernatural Gift of Discernment of Spirits with The Graceful Warrior Podcast! Join Monica Hansen and Dr. David Chotka as they unpack how to see the unseen—and what you will see---
3 Things we discern:
1.Human,
2. Angelic & demonic, and
3. Holy Spirit influences.
Through biblical examples and powerful stories, learn How to Recognize this gift, test its source, and use it for God-honoring purposes. Perfect for the listener who is given this gift and is searching for help to understand it.
Ready to deepen your spiritual gift? Listen Now on your favorite podcast app, or join us on https://Thegracefulwarrior.com
#discernment of spirits, #SpiritualGifts, #HolySpirit, #SeetheUnseen #GracefulWarriorPodcast
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
In this episode, host Monica interviews Healy Ikerd, a licensed professional counselor and Army veteran, on navigating America's riots through faith and emotional well-being. They explore processing emotions like fear and anger with a Christian perspective, the power of prayer during crisis, and strategies for teaching children to manage fear. Healy highlights the importance of scripture, understanding God's character, and finding peace amidst turmoil. She encourages fostering community and support to promote resilience during challenging times.
Healey's Corner- Visit her website and grab her Books and Resources!!- https://writtenbyhealey.com/
Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/writtenbyhealey/
Tune in for practical insights on staying grounded in turbulent times. Subscribe NOW! #FaithBasedPodcast #EmotionalWellBeing #ChristianLiving
Listen to learn how to find peace through scripture during turbulent times. https://thegracefulwarrior.podbean.com, or https://Thegracefulwarrior.com,, Https://Spiritequip.com
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Healy Eichert and Her Journey07:31 Processing Emotions Through a Christian Lens12:00 Biblical Principles for Managing Anger and Fear16:53 The Role of Prayer and Spiritual Warfare19:17 The Church's Impact on Mental Health and Community20:54 The Impact of Faith in Today's World22:23 Guiding the Next Generation24:23 Navigating Fear and Confusion in Children24:39 The Role of Scripture in Mental Health26:31 Transformative Power of God's Word28:40 Finding Hope in Chaos30:37 Understanding God's Character32:37 Grounding in Scripture33:42 Practical Steps for Emotional Health34:59 Children's Literature and Life Lessons43:14 Outro with david.mp4
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11



Monday Jun 16, 2025
Navigating Fear in The Nations Riots: A Christian Perspective
Monday Jun 16, 2025
Monday Jun 16, 2025
Summary
In this Clip of the Graceful Warrior Podcast, host Monica welcomes Healy Eichert, a licensed professional counselor and Army veteran, to discuss the intersection of the RIOTS and faith. They explore how believers can process emotions like fear, anger, and anxiety through a Christian lens, emphasizing the importance of prayer and biblical principles. A Perfect episode of these trying times and how you can learn to find peace in God's Protection.
#Riots, #America, #Trump, #IllegalImmigrants #Patriots
Dont miss this Episode Tomorrow!!
Call to Action 1. Grab Monica's Book- amazon.com/Captured-By-His-Heart 2. Grab Pastor David's Books- https://SpiritEquip.com Https://whitakerhouse.com/product/healing-prayers, 3.. Subscribe at Https://SpiritEquip.com or https://TheGracefulWarrior.com 1.. Engage with Us on Social Media - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/GracefulWarrior8 Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@TheGracefulwarrior Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/gracefulwarrior24 David's Social Media- Facebook- https://facebook.com/SpiritEquip Instagram- https://Instagram.com/david_chotka Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@spiritequipbydavidchotka4626 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians 6:11

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I'm your host, Monica! Here, we're all about sharing raw and powerful stories of resilience and growth. Each episode brings you inspiring guests who open up about their triumphs, trials, and personal transformations. What's unique? It’s the unfiltered, heartfelt conversations & the practical insights that can help you on your own journey to the Lord. Whether you need motivation, want to overcome obstacles, or just enjoy real, impactful stories, The Graceful Warrior Podcast is your go-to source for inspiration & empowerment in your Faith. Tune in on this journey of Armoring Up. 🎙️💪🌟

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